God Loves to Love Messy!

Embrace the messy, sweet sister. 

Our perfect God loves to love messy women like us. I’ve stuggled with anxiety. Even panic attacks. And maybe you have too. But God is with me. I know this because he keeps his promises! Always. Don’t you have messy struggles too?

I will never leave you nor forsake you. Hebrews 13:5b

Have you experienced messy emotions? How about loneliness or messy relationships? Maybe your adult child ignores you. Maybe a dear friend won’t return your phone calls. Perhaps your gasoline tank is on empty and you have no idea where you’ll get money to pay for gas.

Remember, you are not alone!

In this short article, you’re reminded of 3 truths for every Christ follower:

  1. God values you.
  2. He understands your hurt.
  3. He offers healing.

God Values You

God gets it, this hurt that weighs you down. And he offers you peace through Jesus Christ. Your past failures don’t push him away, nor do your present mistakes. Do you have any idea how much God values you?

Soak in God’s truth that you are valued, significant, and loved. Our God is tender toward you. He is Emmanuel — God with you. He calls you. . .Beloved.

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God Understands Your Pain

Everyone has a story of pain. I’ll share one of mine. Would you like to share one of yours with me too? Feel free to send me a message.

Back in the early 1990’s, depression clawed my mind and darkened my mood. Anxiety rattled me too. Difficult memories storm-surged. Yes, there was my parents’ divorce but something even worse. Something I had never told anyone, not ever. And then I sought counseling.

I asked myself, how could I tell anyone my pain? Especially women in the church who seemed to have it all together?

Fast forward to 2000, the year of God’s specific call on my life.

A summer day. Sunny, a soft breeze. Me alone, in prayer. And God impressed on my heart this . . .

“Lucy, comfort my sheep who are hurting with the comfort you’ve received from me.”

“Who me?” I asked

“Trust me, Lucy.”

“I don’t know what to do.”

“Trust me.”

Like the fuzz of a dandelion, my worries flew away. “Okay, Lord.” Just as God understood my pain, he understands yours too. And he offers healing. Sometimes God’s healing comes quickly, but sometimes it seems as slow as molasses, don’t you agree?

And sometimes God heals us this side of heaven.

God Offers Healing

God cherishes you and wants to heal you. He is our hope. Will you choose hope?

To help hurting Christian I went to seminary, read shelves of books, and became certified in biblical counseling. Now I’m furthering my education, working toward a doctorate in biblical counseling.

Over the years I’ve counseled Christian women and the leaders who serve them. Fearful women. Lonely women. Abused women. Women caught in addiction: shopping, alcohol, pornography. Women who’ve committed adultery. Women with hard pasts.

Women like me. Like you. We’re messy, right?

God accepts you just as you are. Like the woman at the well (John 4), an outcast among outcasts, you are loved by the One who ribbons the sky with rainbows. He want to embrace you, to heal you.

Jesus answered, “Everyone who drinks this water will be thirsty again,  but whoever drinks the water I give them will never thirst. Indeed, the water I give them will become in them a spring of water welling up to eternal life.”

The woman said to him, “Sir, give me this water so that I won’t get thirsty and have to keep coming here to draw water.” John 4:13-15

Are you thirsty for living water? Do you ache to know the answer of hope for your heart?

Contact me with your questions and prayer requests. There’s hope.

Sharing Hope with Your Heart,

 

The Perfect Life: Book Review

I didn’t like The Perfect Life at first. The opening pages of this novel by Robin Lee Hatcher describe a one-dimensional life that’s gaggingly perfect: A hunk of a husband. A gorgeous home. Great grown-up daughters. A thriving ministry.

The perfect life. Uggh! Show me the nearest place to toss my cookies.

Then Hatcher reveals one crack in pretty porcelain Katherine Clarkson, and another, and I was hooked. I am convinced Hatcher penned the opening pages of perfection to set up the unveiling of Katherine’s mud mask. By the end of the book, you walk with Katherine through her self-doubt, thoughts of divorce, her willingness to believe lies so easily and her anger toward the people she loves the most, even God.  

The story of Katherine and hubby Brad could be mine. (Or yours? )

Many of us women let the people around us see what we want them to see — that we are capable and need no help, that we have life figured out, that we’re, ahem, perfect. 

This novel gives its readers a reality check. Am I really trusting God or going through the motions? Am I real?  It’s worth a read. You’ll rethink “perfect.” And you may even draw closer to God’s idea of perfection.

Bonus: Hatcher includes an excellent group reading guide at the back of the book.

Robin Lee Hatcher is an award-winning novelist of more than 60 books. She is known for her emotionally charged novels of faith. Her latest: When Love Blooms.

Highly recommended.

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