Discover Your True Identity. You Matter!

How to Recognize LiesDiscover your true identity, and you can battle lies and live from the truth.

You know you have an enemy who lies, don’t you?

He is Satan, the father of lies. He and his demons tempt you to think rotten ideas about your worth. Have you heard thoughts like, “You aren’t good enough! You aren’t pretty enough! You aren’t strong enough!?”

The awesome news: You can replace the lies with the beautiful truth of your true identity. How does that sound? Knowing who you are matters!

Down, Down, Down

When you start to recognize lies, accept that noticing some of them may take time because they’ve become a habit. You’ve probably been repeating them to yourself for a long time. So no quick-fix expectation. Got it?

If you beat yourself up, you’re more likely to fall into temptations of all sorts. A lot of it looks good like the forbidden fruit on a certain tree in the Garden of Eden. When you’re feeling down and out, Satan and the world dangle treasures before your eyes, pretty things like new clothes, invites to parties, good health, a happy family, a big house or chic condo and stuff to fill them.

In hopes of feeling less afraid and more secure, you and I may feed our gods, hungry gods that help us feel special or important – like money and pleasure, others’ opinions of us, busyness, fame and privilege and honor.

But this is not who you are. Did you know this? You don’t have to get stuck in believing lies. Isn’t this refreshing? Did you know God will change your faulty thinking? That He’ll transform your thoughts?

Changing Faulty Thinking

God says you are beautiful and strong in Christ even when. . .

You lose your debit card.

A colleague steals your idea and gets the credit and a bonus.

Your daughter shoplifts a bottle of nail polish and is arrested.

Cancer strikes a good friend.

A bully harasses your son.

Your husband comes home late, again.

Here’s the truth. Every Christian is in Christ. This is a God-sized concept and reality that not one of us can fathom. Too tremendous for your mind.

According to the Bible, you die in Adam and are born again in Christ.

For as in Adam all die, even so in Christ all shall be made alive.” 1 Corinthians 15:22

You aren’t what you do. That’s performance. Your true identity is who you are in Christ. You change your faulty thinking when you embrace your true identity and stop banking on performance.

Adam (who lived in the Garden of Eden and ate forbidden fruit) died as a sinner. Jesus died for sinners. In Adam we’re cursed. In Christ we’re blessed. In Adam there’s condemnation. In Christ there’s salvation.

What God Says About You!

An excellent place in the Bible to discover your true identity is Ephesians 1:3-7. I’ve colored your identity words in blue.

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love  he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace.

In Christ you are blessed, chosen, holy, blameless, loves, predestined, adopted, redeemed, and forgiven. Which of these descriptors speak to your heart? Your radical new identity comes from putting off your old humanity and putting on the new you in Christ.

Make no mistake. This beautifully new and radical identity that you possess has nothing to do with anything you’ve done. It results from who Jesus is and what he has done. As one pastor wrote,

If you’re a Christian, here’s the good news: who you really are has nothing to do with you–how much you can accomplish, who you can become, your behavior, your strengths your weaknesses, your sordid past, for family background, your education, your looks and so on. Your identity is firmly anchored in Christ’s accomplishment, not yours; His strength, not yours; His performance, not yours; His victory, not yours.

What you and I do flows from who we are. Isn’t this amazing and comforting? It’s not about you. It’s all about God. Yes!

You live from your identity, not for your identity.

As you embrace your true identity in Christ, you’ll rightly handle the issues of live that come your way. Pretty cool, huh?

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A Matter of Character, recommended

a-matter-of-character-cover-193x300A Matter of Character by Robin Lee Hatcher gave me dark circles under my eyes. I lost sleep as turned pages into the wee hours of the morn. Was the need for extra makeup worth it? Yep.

Here’s a summary: Dapne McKinley isn’t your ordinary heiress. She secretly writes dime novels featuring a nefarious villian known as Rawhide Rick.

Smart, confident, Dafne isn’t afraid to defy convention. Even if it is 1918.

Nobody in Bethlehem Springs knows the man behind the stories. . .except Daphne. But when newspaperman Joshua Crawford comes to town searching for the man who sullied the good name of his grandfather, Daphne finds herself at a crossroads, reassessing the power of her words, re-thinking how best to honor her gifts, and reconsidering what she wants out of life.

She chooses love.

About the Author:

Robin Lee Hatcher is the author of sixty novels, including A Vote of Confidence, When Love Blooms, Wagered Heart, Return to Me and Catching Katie, named one of the Best Books of 2004 by Library Journal. Winner of the Christy Award for Excellence in Christian Fiction, two RITA Awards for Best Inspirational Romance and the RWA Lifetime Achievement Award, Robin lives in Idaho.

A Matter of Character
Release: June 2010
Soft cover, 272 pp.
ISBN: 0310258073

Here’s a list of other bloggers on this book’s blog tour.

Psst. . .I received a free copy of the book from the publisher in order to review it. If you’d like me to pass my copy to you — no coffee stains, promise — leave a comment.  

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED

You Are Beautiful,

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But He Is Strong

you-will-always-be-there-300x2001A friend forwarded me an email that held this gem. A reason it resonates with me: The first stanza of “Jesus Loves Me” is my statement of faith on my Facebook page.

Here’s the forwarded email, with a few edits:

“On Sunday I watched an Atlanta church honoring one of its senior pastors who had been retired many years. I wondered why the church even bothered to ask the old gentleman to preach at that age.

“After a warm welcome, he rose from his high back chair and walked with great effort and a sliding gait to the podium. He placed both hands on the pulpit to steady himself and then he began to speak, slowly, quietly.

“‘When I was asked to come here today and talk to you, your pastor asked me to tell you what was the greatest lesson ever learned in my 50-odd years of preaching. I thought about it for a few days and boiled it down to just one thing that made the most difference in my life and sustained me through all my trials. The one thing that I could always rely on when tears and heartbreak and pain and fear and sorrow paralyzed me. The only thing that would comfort was this verse.

Jesus loves me this I know.
For the Bible tells me so.
Little ones to Him belong,
We are weak but He is strong.
Yes, Jesus loves me.
The Bible tells me so.’

“When he finished, the church was quiet. He shuffled back to his chair. I don’t believe I will ever forget it.'”

A simple song. Words of truth.

When I forget about me, I sense his peace. Less of me, more of him. I am weak, he is strong.

A beautiful warrior gets her strength in Christ.

You Are Beautiful, Lucy

The Winner Loses? Huh?

THIS ISN’T A story about softball.

Or a home run.

Or a winning team.

Or a blown-out knee.

Look deep and you’ll see someone amazing.  

As I watched this video, my heart grew three sizes and tears ran down my cheeks. I had glimped God’s beauty, his strength. And I wondered, would I have picked up the injured “enemy”? Would I have put the opponents’ interest before my own?

The unselfishness of two truly beautiful softball players remind me of Jesus. The most unlikely person, according to human standards, saves us all. Enjoy.

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You Are Beautiful, Lucy

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