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A Minute of Hope (with God as Workout Partner)

a-minute-of-hopeHi friends,

Today debuts “A Minute of Hope with Lucy,” my short hope-filled weekend videos.

I’d love to do a video on a topic close to your heart. Leave your idea in Comments. Scroll to the very bottom of this post and you’ll see “Leave a Reply.”

By the way on Tuesday I’m running a wonderful — and thought provoking — blog post by Bob Kellemen on the downside of psychology. You’re going to love it or hate it. On Thursday, I announce the winner of my June giveaway. There’s still time to enter. Bop here to get in on the fun.

Now. . .A Minute of Hope with Lucy. :-)


Blessing of Hope!

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Mama Needs a Time Out

I asked a few hundred women in a Facebook group this Q: What is your top mama need?

Three kept popping up:  A support system of family and friends, time alone, and encouragement.

Psst: If yours isn’t listed, please send me a contact message and I’ll address yours in a blog post or give you an answer by email.  :-)

Also please leave a comment! Comments give encouragement to me and others. :-)

Scroll to the very, very, very bottom of this post and type your comment. Thanks!  

Today let’s look at the whys and the hows of taking a timeout. Ready? I am. . .’cause this mama needs a break!

What a Time Out Is NOT

When a mama takes a time out, she is not beating herself up.

I need to do more. I’m a bad mom. The laundry’s flowing over baskets. Err, this counter is sticky, this floor is stick, I’m sticky. I suck.

In your time out you do NOT start planning. Hey, if I’m taking a time out, I might as well get busy planning my day, my week, my month, my life. NO! Do NOT go here.

You do NOT rehearse “what if’s.” What if I were thinner or toner or smarter or organized?

 Do you beat yourself up sometimes, thinking you should do more or do different? Isn’t this a recipe for anxiety? 

What a Time Out Is!

A time out is a time to rest. Sure, take a nap if you need one. But here I am focusing on resting the mind, bathing the Spirit in Jesus’ invitation. You know it, don’t you?

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. Matthew 11:28-29

These are power words, this time out invitation. Disconnecting with worry and busyiness. Connect with the One who loves you best. Amen.

Among the women I counsel biblically, I register not only a lack of soul rest but also iffy self care. Easy to remedy self care. Here are the three most important:

1. Drink water, about 6 to 8 8-ounces a day. Water has many healing properties. I’ll write a post soon on the spiritual and emotional healing properties of water. Incidentally, soda pop is not water.

2. Get enough sleep, about 7 to 10 hours daily. Set a time to get ready for bed and a time to wake up. Again, there are spiritual and emotional health benefits to sleep.

3. Move. You don’t have to join a gym or sign up for Zumba. Just move. Walks are perfect. Stretch. Breath deep from the belly.

What’s Next

When you read a post suggesting change, you make feel overwhelmed. Change is hard. You may feel defeated or think, “I tried that before and I quit after three days, so why bother?”

Why bother?

Take a time out to refresh and regroup because you matter, you are valuable, you are significant. Your children (toddlers or married adults) are watching how you take care of yourself and spend your time. God rested, didn’t he?

Take a time out and rest in Jesus. Go to him. He’s waiting. Find rest for your soul.

Coming up in the “Mama Needs a Break” series: Your Next Big Thing!

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Blessings and Hope!

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