Trapped by Comparisons?
Many years ago the Hubs and I bought our first house. We were just 24 and happy. . .even though the place needed a major overhaul.
Carpenter ants had feasted on the back porch. The roof leaked. The fascia was holey, which explains why a family of raccoons had made a home in our home.
She had to go.
I just wasn’t going to share my home with another female.
Once we kicked out the raccoon all was good.
For a little while. Then on my walks to and from the train station I began noticing other homes: brick homes, big homes, homes with impeccable landscaping.
It bugged me that my precious little Cape Cod didn’t measure up.
Into the comparison trap I fell and broke my neck.
Err.
At the core of my comparison trap: fear.
You remember the story of Eve and the forbidden fruit. Satan in the form of a serpent – a very chatty serpent – put doubt in Eve’s mind and she believed that God was withholding something good from her and the Hubs. So she chomped.
Bad decision.
The good news is you can replace your fear with faith, your comparisons with confidence.
How? Continually believe God.
THIS IS NOT EASY.
Satan will tempt you to entertain fearful thoughts and to compare.
Remember whose you are: HIS.
What is your comparison trap? Please leave a comment.
You Are Loved, Lucy
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Tags: comparison, Eve, fear




December 18th, 2009 at 11:53 pm
Lucy,
Loved this piece! Slowly but surely I am learning not to compare.
The picture you used (My Way/God’s Way) is perfect. I hope you don’t mind, but I cut and pasted it into my photo library for a future blog post. I searched and couldn’t find a copyright on it.
God bless you and your ministry,
Cheri
January 11th, 2010 at 4:20 pm
i am in the midst of a train going through my heart and life. the things i thought were challenging are now the things i see goiing away. Marriage. children. the way of the Lord in the hearrts of those i love SO much. ANd i am being compared to the abilities of this world. Told to leave, needing to find a new direction. and yet it is the same one as always: God. Jesus is the one and ony way!
so i may loose everything compared to the priceless gain i have in Christ, and comparing is not from God. Thank you for your truth. May God bless each word to annoit the ears of others.
in humble grace, faith