What should you do when a man other than your husband begins looking and sounding more appealing?
a) Continue the friendship and see where it ends up. You never know, it could be great.
b) Face it, you screwed up by becoming emotionally involved with the male friend. Chuck the friendship. Chuck the marriage. Fly to Tahiti and start over with a new name.
c) Fight for your marriage because the man you always wanted is the one you already have. It won’t be easy, but it’s worth it.
An inappropriate relationship begins the usual way. Innocently.
For you who’ve been there, you get it:
phone calls
inside jokes
a gentle touch on the shoulder
a little flirting
day dreaming about him
and, yes, a realization that you ran a red light and it’s time to pull over and get busted but you don’t want to stop because it really is innocent — right?
Right?
Question: What do you think? Have you ever been there?