My mistake began as many bad things do. . .with no warning. Click & Tweet!
I had skipped my gym workout. So to appease my guilt, I decided to stretch gently for a few minutes then do 25 full sit-ups. Bad mistake. You see, very soon I’d injure myself. And soon after my physical injury, emotional pain would hit me upside the head.
And as my pain worsened — physical and emotional — I learned 3 lessons I’ll share in just a moment.
Have you made a mistake too? What pain did you experice?
My Sit-Up Mistake
Now back to my sit-up story.
On that day which I’d love to erase from the calender, I tucked my feet under the couch, laid on my back, and rolled all the way up. (Seriously, friends, do NOT perform sit-ups this way. Too late I learned this truth from Bob and Brad, popular YouTube physical therapists. Check out this video of 15 exercises to never do.)
On my eighth full sit-up, something in my back felt weird. But I pressed on and completed two more sit-ups, far short of my goal. I rubbed my back and called it a day — and didn’t think much of my situps
until the next morning
when I awoke to an intense clenching in the muscles in my lower back and numbness in my legs. I elbowed my snoozing husband.
“Steve, something’s wrong. I need your help. Steve, wake up.”
I worried. (Yes, I know worrying is a sin.) Yes, pain had gotten my attention.
More Problems Hit
As I rested and got pampered by my family who cooked, laundered, and swept, as my cats curled next to me, I found out that a close family member needed daily injections. Nothing life threatening, but just another thing to handle. Time passed. My back injury lingered. And my emotional pain intensified. Dare I admit, I asked “Why me?”
I remember thinking and praying,
“God, the doctor said I should be better in four to eight weeks. I’m not. Walking and standing hurts, and my legs and feet feel bubble-wrapped, and now a family member is hurting. Help us.”
Then, health difficulties slammed two more family members and I prayed again.
And again.
More intensely.
Louder.
Desperately.
You may have heard this quote by C.S. Lewis:
God whispers to us in our pleasures. He speaks to us in our conscience, but He shouts to us in our pain. It is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.
God was rousing me.
3 Take-Ways After a Mistake
You and I each have dealt with mistakes of all sorts–physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual. Until we see Jesus face to face, more pain will come. Sometimes a drizzle, sometimes a thunder and lightning and darkness.
As I’ve pondered these things and sought God’s counsel, I learned three things from my mistake.
1. God wants to meet with us. In other words, He wants us to talk with him and listen to him, prayerfully. Psalm 10 is great example.
2. God blesses you and me. Ephesians 1:3 underlines the truth that we who love Jesus have been blessed with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly realms. Every means every. You do not need to get more blessing. You have it all. Now.
3. Whatever happens as a result of a mistake, God knows what He is doing, for his glory and our good. Click & Tweet! It’s unimportant we understand it all. God does. He is in control. I am not.
What’s the bottom line? I believe God is good and sovereign and all-wise. He remains true when I falter. And so I hope in him. Even when I’ve made a mistake. Even when pain comes.
Question: What have you learned when you’ve made a mistake? If you have a moment, please leave a comment.
Counseling Hearts to Hope!
One glaring lesson after suffering the consequences of a mistake….don’t do it again! And keep trusting God to bring good from it.
Barbara,
Yes! Don’t do it again if at all possible. Sometimes a Christian (or anyone) has a besetting sin that had dug in deep and hard to shake. For one, it’s gossip. For another, unforgiveness. But as you implied, when you can stop making a mistake, do stop. The earlier the better and before it becomes habit. Thanks for sharing!
I hope you are okay,I have siatica and was layed up for three months just turning the wrong way.That is all it takes .I really like your blog..Take care,be safe,get well.
Thanks, John. I am better. It’s been a little over a year since my injury but took about nine months to figure out what to do. I’m still healing and need to be extra careful. You take care too.
We all have valuable lessons to learn, if we will, from our mistakes and sin. Thanks for sharing, Lucy Ann!
Thank you for your encouragement, Shirley. Some lessons are very hard, aren’t they?
Funny thing about the sit-ups…that’s how we were taught to do sit-ups in gym class many moons ago. So I can empathize with your mistake in this area as I’ve had to re-learn a number of better health practices. Yet, I’ve come to believe, as you stated, Lucy, that God is sovereign over all of them and has a plan for good for those who love Him, even as we practice that love imperfectly! Bless His name! And may He bless you today, Lucy.
Thank you for your blessing, Diana! Yes, the Lord is sovereign in our trials and over our trials, which is wonderfully amazing when we think deeply on these things. Thanks again for your words.